When virtue and modesty enlighten her charms, the luster of a beautiful and attractive woman is brighter than the stars of heaven, and the influence of her power is in vain to resist. (Akhenaton)
For a long-term, monogamous, and healthy relationship, attraction is essential. Now that we have cleared that up, what makes someone attractive in the first place? Are they attractive because of their smile? Their physique? face? Is it the way they carry themselves with confidence?
Regardless of size or shape, everyone should feel comfortable in their own skin. You should feel like a beautiful woman, no matter what!
It’s very common for people not to feel 100% all the time. It’s normal to have bad days, but if you’re feeling negative about yourself more than you’re feeling positive, you might need to change your mindset.
The most romantic day of the year is right around the corner, so here are a few tips on how to look your best:
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Exercise can play a crucial role
Exercise can make you feel more attractive even if you dread it.
Exercise has more benefits than just the impact on your body physically. It is a way to release aggression, to spend some time alone, and to release endorphins, a chemical that improves your mood. According to a study conducted by the University of Turku in 2015, exercising boosts confidence.
A relationship and etiquette expert, April Masini, told INSIDER that exercise can help you feel like a more attractive woman. As well as working out, you release endorphins and balance work, play, and self-care.”
Attractive Woman Apply makeup that gives you a fresh and natural look
Only the princesses from the movies could lay down in bed and look flawless, and that was thanks to the birds and mice. Making yourself look like you don’t need makeup is the result of applying some makeup. With the right makeup products and some know-how, even the most subtle, “natural” look can be achieved. Cosmetics are an art form. For this purpose, follow the steps.
- You can instantly brighten and beautify your skin by applying a bb cream that matches your skin tone.
- Lightweight concealer should be applied under the eyes, along the nose bridge, and at the outer corners of the eyes. The concealer should be two shades lighter than the foundation/BB cream.
- For long-lasting shine control, apply a mattifying powder to the forehead, nose, cheeks, and chin to set makeup and sponge excess oil.
- With a slim, tapered brush, apply a light-catching highlighter along the tops of cheekbones and brow bones.
- For a noticeable, yet natural-looking flush, blend a pink-toned blush into the apples of your cheeks, extending up and out along the cheekbone.
- You can contour your features by applying bronzer to the hollows of your cheeks and extending out towards your ears. The result is a radiant, sun-kissed look.
- At the end you can use Color Sensational Shaping Lip Liner, to line your lips with a nude lip liner. Begin by defining your cupid’s bow. Draw an x just above the top lip. Outline and contour your outer lips. Fill in the lips with creamy nude lipstick.
Smiles make you appear warm and welcoming to other people, which can make them feel good about you. Looking in the mirror and smiling at yourself may even provide the same benefits.
According to relationship therapist, educator, and author Shadeen Francis, “as social creatures, we’re programmed to scan for cues of safety and welcome in others’ body language.” “Smiling is a universal signal for warmth, approachability, and attractiveness.”
In addition, if you smile at yourself in the mirror, your brain receives the same signals as if a familiar friend were smiling at you,” she said.
Making negative statements about yourself
Pay attention to why you talk negatively about yourself if you find yourself doing so. These statements can take a toll on your self-image and make you feel worse about yourself.
Jodi De Luca says people should identify what triggers them to make such statements and eliminate them if possible.
She advised INSIDER to pay attention to what triggers self-sabotaging statements.
Identifying the triggers of negative self-talk will help you catch yourself, turn them into positive statements, and even prevent them from happening.
Using a person’s name is an effective way of reaching them
The simple act of repeating someone’s name in a conversation is a great way to spark someone’s interest.
You can grab someone’s attention by calling them by their name. When you call someone’s name, they turn towards the direction of the voice that called it. Therefore, you will receive their full attention. You will also feel closer to them.
For you to appear attractive in front of your interest, getting someone’s attention or making them aware of your presence is a very crucial step.
To attract someone to you, you must understand the relationship between attraction and attention.
According to this hack, the more you can attract someone’s attention, the higher the chances that they’ll get attracted to you.
You should always appear well-groomed
Always show up well-groomed.
To make ourselves more attractive, research shows that good grooming, clean hair, good perfume or cologne, and quality clothes are important aspects of our self-presentation.
how dressing affects your attitude and confidence
We often hear phrases like “dress for your dream job, not your current one” or “look good, feel good.”. However, most people don’t believe in them, but we still dress appropriately for the occasion.
Research on the impact of clothing on behavior suggests that there may be some truth to these sayings. Scientists say that the clothes we wear influence our behavior, attitude, personality, mood, confidence, and even the way we interact with others. This is called “enclothed cognition”.
We feel better when we are dressed well and look good. Our attitudes and self-confidence can be boosted and we have the energy to treat ourselves and those around us with more respect when we feel good on the outside.
Prologue, eye contact
Always look directly into someone’s eyes when talking to them.
According to research, prolonged eye contact increases the chance of two people falling in love. At the same time, prolonged eye contact provides a greater level of attraction than short eye contact.
Psychologist Author Aron says that eye contact leads to high levels of attraction for two primary reasons:
- Having a desirable person;
- It gives you a reason to believe they are interested in you.
As for the first point, I don’t know about it, but for the second point, if you are reading this article, you must be interested in them, so what are you waiting for?
Extensive body language appears more attractive and confident.
A 2016 study reveals that people with an expansive body posture are perceived as more confident and powerful by others. It’s no secret that confidence makes you more attractive in the eyes of others, right?
According to the same study, simply having powerful body language makes you seem more attractive to women. At the same time, a contractive body posture for example — crossing arms or hunching shoulders can make you seem the other way around.
The experiment involved creating dating profiles of young men and women, and in the first set of profiles, the people’s pictures were in a contractive position. While in the other set the next group of people was photographed in expansive poses.
Findings showed that people were more likely to pick expansive postured people (especially men) for a date than contractive postured ones. This means that expansive body language simply increases attraction.
Although mainly focusing on the physical aspect of attraction, one must keep in mind the psychological aspect. Even if the attraction fuels things up a little, it’s the personality that makes a healthy relationship work.
It is impossible to change your personality completely, but by walking towards positivity, self-care, and gratitude you will eventually become a more attractive woman than any of those things.